Don’t be these people
Was worried about camping in a campground recently. Was pleasantly surprised with how quiet and dark most people were. Until these fine folks decided to change campsites cuz their neighbors finally arrived and they were worried about being bothered. They had LEDs on every surface of their trailer, had LED lantern lights setup through their site, and Christmas lights strung out along one side too which they left on all night. Don’t be these people
Life's a shared experience, and sometimes, the people we encounter can make it a whole lot less pleasant. This isn't a call-out session, but rather a friendly PSA highlighting the behaviors that turn otherwise normal folks into public nuisances. So, heed these warnings and strive to be someone who enhances, not detracts, from the experiences of others.
The Phone Hog
We all love our phones, but there's a time and place. Don't be the person holding up the line at the grocery store with a full-blown conversation about last night's dinner. Blaring music or videos without headphones is equally offensive. Movies and restaurants are sacred spaces for focused enjoyment – leave the phone calls and internet rabbit holes for later.
The Entitled One
The world doesn't revolve around you, champ. Cutting in lines, demanding special treatment, or throwing tantrums when things don't go your way are surefire ways to earn universal dislike. Treat everyone with respect, starting with service workers who are simply trying to do their jobs. Remember, a little kindness goes a long way.
The Loud Talker
Some people seem to believe everyone in a 10-mile radius needs to be privy to their deepest thoughts and loudest opinions. Public transportation, libraries, and even quiet cafes are not your personal soapbox. Be mindful of your volume, especially when discussing sensitive topics or personal matters. There's a reason libraries have a "shhh" symbol – respect the peace.
The One Who Doesn't Clean Up
Leaving a mess in your wake, whether it's overflowing trash cans at a park or movie theater popcorn scattered across the floor, shows a blatant disregard for others. Clean up after yourself, and consider picking up a stray piece of trash here and there. It makes the world a better place, one discarded napkin at a time.
The Overly Emotional
Strong emotions are a part of life, but public spaces aren't always the best place to unleash them. Crying hysterically over a spilled coffee or yelling at a stranger because they bumped into you are not solutions. Take a deep breath, find a quiet corner, and address the situation calmly when possible.
The Know-It-All
We all have areas of expertise, but constantly correcting others or mansplaining basic concepts is a major turn-off. Be open to learning new things and accept that everyone has something to offer. Sometimes, a simple "interesting" or "I hadn't thought of that" goes a lot further than a condescending lecture.
The Perpetual Complainer
Negativity is contagious. The person who constantly complains about everything drains the joy out of a room. Focus on the positive, or at least keep your grievances to a trusted friend. If you find yourself constantly complaining, it might be time to re-evaluate your situation and find ways to make positive changes.
The Inconsiderate Neighbor
Living in close proximity requires a certain level of respect. Blaring music at 3 am, constant DIY projects that sound like a warzone, or letting your dog bark incessantly are not conducive to harmonious co-existence. Be mindful of noise levels, keep your living space tidy, and be a considerate neighbor.
The One Who Takes Advantage
We all have that friend who constantly "borrows" things they never return or expects favors with no reciprocation. Set boundaries and learn to say no to unreasonable requests. Being helpful is great, but don't let people exploit your kindness.
The Bragging Bragger
Nobody enjoys listening to someone endlessly brag about their accomplishments, possessions, or children (unless prompted!). Focus on genuine conversation, be humble, and let your actions speak for themselves. True success shines through naturally, without the need for constant boasting.
Remember, we're all sharing this planet. By being mindful of our behaviors and cultivating a sense of empathy, we can make the world a more enjoyable place for everyone, including ourselves. So, strive to be the kind of person you wouldn't mind encountering in public – someone respectful, considerate, and (hopefully) not on this list!
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